Sunday, February 27, 2011

"Just Kids"

National Book Award winner Just Kids is a finalist for the National Book Critics Circle prize.
Just Kids describes Patti Smith's evolution as an artist and relationship with Robert Mapplethorpe. Her language though sparse is elegant and tasteful.
She was a sickly child enchanted by reading, which fired her imagination and the urge to express herself. She resented being female until she read Little Women. Inspired by the character of Jo, she decided she would write a book. A visit to the Museum of Art in Philadelphia transformed her. and she dreamt of meeting an artist to love, support, and work side by side with.
She was tall, skinny and according to her father, wasn’t attractive enough to find a husband. She attended Glassboro State Teachers College but an unplanned pregnancy forced her to drop out.
After placing her child for adoption and being laid off from a minimum wage job, she decided to go to New York. She had friends studying at Pratt Institute and hoped she find work at a bookstore. Unbeknownst to her, the friends had moved so she lived on the streets, going hungry until she was hired as a cashier in the ethnic jewelry section of Brentano’s uptown store. Robert Mapplethorpe purchased a piece she was fond of and later rescued her from a bad date.
Together they became friends, lovers, and most importantly artists. Patti encouraged him to take photographs, and he encouraged her to read her poetry to audiences. They made a pact to never leave each other which they kept, even after Mapplethorpe acknowledged his homosexuality.
Their alliance included friendships with Janis Joplin, Jim Carroll, Allen Ginsberg, and Todd Rundgren.  Sam Shepard bought her the guitar she wrote most of her songs on. She lived with Allen Lanier, who would become the keyboard player for the Blue Oyster Cult.
Mapplethorpe’s development as an artist gained traction after he began taking photographs with a Polaroid camera. Initially his primary subjects were celebrities, artists, socialites as well as the album cover for Horses. Eventually, he began documenting the gay S & M scene provoking outcries of obscenity.
In 1986 Mapplethorpe was diagnosed with AIDS. On March 8, 1989 he asked Patti to write their story. He died the next day. Thankfully she kept her promise.
Just Kids documents a period of social change and a unique relationship. The National Book Critics Circle prize will be decided March 10.
Their story is for anyone who likes biographies, art, or music and especially those who fancy themselves creative.

Friday, February 4, 2011

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Steve Harvey's 'Straight Talk No Chaser' Book Review


Steve Harvey's book "Straight Talk No Chaser" could change your luck this Valentine's Day.
"Straight Talk No Chaser" starts by outlining how men are likely to feel about relationships according to their age. A man in his late 20s is likely to be so focused on making a career that marriage isn’t on the agenda. A man in his 30s having achieved some stability may be ready for a monogamous relationship. By his 40s a man is in his prime, happy to have a home and family, and in his 50s he wants to solidify his legacy.
Harvey believes marriage is the completion of manhood and laments that men are not more willing to share the benefits of it. If you’re a woman who wants marriage consider what "Straight Talk" offers.
First, if you want a committed relationship do not settle for less. Simply put, if a man can have you without a commitment, he is not likely to make a commitment. If you don’t make marriage a requirement he won’t.
Second, it’s crucial to question a man early in the dating process. According to Harvey, a man will always answer your questions in a way that puts him in the best light. The chapter on how to effectively question a man is worth the price of admission, alone.
Third, no sex for 90 days. Why 90 days? Because if a man is not willing to give you  time to decide he is worthy of you, he is not the man for you.
Steve Harvey is not a therapist. It should be noted he is on his third marriage. Ex-wife Mary accuses Harvey of multiple affairs. His current wife, Marjorie, was his mistress during his marriage to Mary and claims that he abandoned her and turned their son Wynton against her. Even so, relationship experts like Dr. Pat Allen and Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger endorse similar policies.
"Straight Talk No Chaser" is  an enjoyable easy read that's bound to prompt a lot of discussions.

Steve Harvey's 'Straight Talk No Chaser' Book Review

Steve Harvey's book "Straight Talk No Chaser" could change your luck this Valentine's Day.
"Straight Talk No Chaser" starts by outlining how men are likely to feel about relationships according to their age. A man in his late 20s is likely to be so focused on making a career that marriage isn’t on the agenda. A man in his 30s having achieved some stability may be ready for a monogamous relationship. By his 40s a man is in his prime, happy to have a home and family, and in his 50s he wants to solidify his legacy.
Harvey believes marriage is the completion of manhood and laments that men are not more willing to share the benefits of it. If you’re a woman who wants marriage consider what "Straight Talk" offers.
First, if you want a committed relationship do not settle for less. Simply put, if a man can have you without a commitment, he is not likely to make a commitment. If you don’t make marriage a requirement he won’t.
Second, it’s crucial to question a man early in the dating process. According to Harvey, a man will always answer your questions in a way that puts him in the best light. The chapter on how to effectively question a man is worth the price of admission, alone.
Third, no sex for 90 days. Why 90 days? Because if a man is not willing to give you  time to decide he is worthy of you, he is not the man for you.
Steve Harvey is not a therapist. It should be noted he is on his third marriage. Ex-wife Mary accuses Harvey of multiple affairs. His current wife, Marjorie, was his mistress during his marriage to Mary and claims that he abandoned her and turned their son Wynton against her. Even so, relationship experts like Dr. Pat Allen and Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger endorse similar policies.
"Straight Talk No Chaser" is  an enjoyable easy read that's bound to prompt a lot of discussions.

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Made in Dagenham and the Equality Pay Act

Made in Dagenham is about the 1968 strike by women in Dagenham, England, which eventually resulted in The Equality Pay Act.
When the Ford Dagenham female machinists work was categorized as unskilled resulting in a pay cut, they went on strike. When all the female machinists from the other Ford plants in the U.K. joined the strike, Ford was forced to shut down. The women had to stand up to Ford management and to their husbands, many of whom were employed by the same plant.
Made in Dagenham is a slightly fictionalized account reminding us that the fight for gender equality is not in the distant past.
Small moments in the film hit hardest. Sally Hawkins, who plays Rita O’Grady, finds herself thrust into a leadership position. When she first meets with the local union representative, he tells her “keep your head down when they (the Ford executives) ask questions and let the men do the talking.” Later, as she rushes off to a union conference, her husband reminds her he is out of clean shirts.
Sometimes the behavior best illustrates the times. For example, when the American Ford representative is welcomed into his English counterpart’s home, his host offers to take his hat and coat. He then immediately hands it off to his wife.
The film is not without humor. There is the real-life moment when a strike banner reading "We Want Sexual Equality" failed to unfurl properly and read “We Want Sex” instead.
The end result was the passing of the Equal Pay Act of 1970, which made it illegal to have different pay scales for men and women. Please note that was two years after the strike, and American women still earn less than men.
Made in Dagenham is a reminder that we have come a long way, but the fight must continue.

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Til Debt Do Us Part - Newlyweds

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Saturday, November 13, 2010

The Fairy Jobmother: Parent Trap- Episode 3 by Drina Turner